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How to Start Loving Yourself?

Ever felt why don't people love me? In this article, I have explained how to love yourself and start loving yourself first before thinking about other people.

What is the definition of success?

"Success is not the key to happiness but happiness is the key to success"

Being happy is the secret of a successful life. God has given many benefits and goodness to man. Most importantly, Man is a creature that has an immense ability to think and understand.

Who does not want to live or waste life simply? Every person has a very strong desire to succeed, to do something and to get his own identity. Some people increase this desire day by day and some people suppress it for fear of society or labour.

But by asking yourself, see who does not want to live a life in which people love you and recognize you. Subsequently, there are many reasons for success such as strong determination, hard work, dreaming. Similarly, working towards the dreams fulfilling them, truth, honesty, ability to take risks, etc.

But there is also a factor of success that we often ignore and that is to love ourselves. To love oneself and to respect oneself is a very strong quality of successful people.

How to Love Yourself?

Do, you ever sit back and think about whom do you love the most? If you ask this matter, the answer will usually be as many people as my parents, my children, my spouse etc. If you think deeply, you will get an answer to this question which you can hardly accept. And the answer is 'yourself'.

Yes! You love yourself the most in this world. If seen, then we do every small thing and the biggest thing for our happiness only? Whether it is to get married, to do a job, to be a mother, to help someone, to make someone sad, whatever.

Yes! The only difference lies in the source of happiness, some radiate happiness by giving happiness to others and some get happiness from others.

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Didn't Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa and many social reformers of the world think about their happiness? Undoubtedly though, these were people who were happy to see others happy. Some people consider it inappropriate to love themselves because people often have the impression that the person who loves themselves is selfish and cannot love others.

So the answer is that it can never be wrong to love oneself because the person who does not love himself cannot truly love anyone else. How can one who is not satisfied with himself keep someone else satisfied?

‘Unless you fill yourself up first you will have nothing to give to anyone’
To love oneself means to refine oneself, to seek out the good in oneself, to gain respect for oneself, to keep one's self-statement positive, to keep herself motivated and to take responsibility for every good bad incident that has happened to you.

Always remember that you will be able to share empathy and respect to others only when you have that thing in abundance.
It is as natural to love yourself as it is to breathe. Likewise, It has also been said in the Bible that we should love others as much as we do ourselves. However, sometimes we forget to like ourselves. The famous psychologist Sigmund Freud mentions two types of instinct in humans, one constructive and one destructive. Some people display their feelings constructively.

Those people get pleasure by doing good work and by destroying some people and hurting others.
If you are doing any destructive work, making yourself depressed and frustrated with your life. Then you do not love yourself. A person who does not love himself cannot give love to others, because unless you try any emotion on yourself, you will not taste it.

How will you present it better for others? To love oneself does not mean ‘I’, but it means recognizing your goodness and getting out of it and growing yourself in the right sense.
In psychiatry too, for the treatment of depressed patients from their lives, they are asked to remove the meaninglessness to find the purpose of their life.

Just think what would be the situation in which a man is determined to commit suicide? Such a situation arises only and only when a man has no attachment to himself. He starts hating himself for some reason and punishes himself.

So let us think, How important it is to love yourself because on the day you stop loving yourself your life will not even exist. As a result 'it is impossible that one should love God but not oneself'. Because the beginning of your life is also from you and the end is also from you. Therefore, we should always pray to God to give us the power to do such things. This will make us start feeling love and honour ourselves.

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